Piano teaching consists of three links: teachers, parents, and students. Common sense in psychology tells us that children between the ages of two and seven are generally not self-aware and cannot reasonably understand their purpose of learning the piano, nor can they propose goals and find solutions to themselves in practice. Therefore, parents play a very important role in the process of children's piano learning.
To some extent, children's learning to play musical instruments is also a test of parents' patience and the correctness of their children's education concepts and management methods. Of course, successful education cannot be separated from the intentions and strategies of parents.
We have high expectations for the future of our children and a strong sense of participation in their education. Being a good parent will directly affect your child's smooth entry.
Some parents let their children learn the piano in order to fulfill their musical dreams. Such parents often think that their children are also geniuses; some parents do it all by themselves, and they cant wait to practice the piano for their children, count the beats for their children, and read the scores for their children. When it ’s time, give the child a roll and roll name;
some let it go, let it go, take care of themselves, and take time off for less important things; some parents believe that diligence can make up for themselves, adhere to the principle, and ask their children to complete the homework assigned by the teacher regularly and quantitatively. Behavior directly affects children's learning and growth, as well as the cultivation of children's behavioral habits and attitudes towards learning.
Although parents' mindset and behavior habits are difficult to change, as long as they have a positive attitude, a correct learning purpose, and pay attention to playing a positive role in the child's learning of the piano, they will receive good results.
First of all, parents should realize that it is a very difficult task to train their children to learn the piano. They need to be busy with the family, picking up and picking up the children from the wind and rain.
If you just feel bored just practicing, the best way is to learn the piano with your children. In this way, you will experience the actual difficulties that your child faces, and you will really understand the teacher's requirements for your child. You can also effectively urge the child, rather than a general call.
I have seen many parents think that learning to play the piano is a child's business, and sending the child to the teacher is all over. This is okay for a child who already has some learning experience, but for a young child, it is an irresponsible attitude. Because the child has no self-control ability, it is impossible to completely digest what the teacher said.
At this time, parents should study with the students and help the children to take notes of learning piano for home review. Some parents unconsciously help while the child is learning the piano, sometimes give the child water to drink, or do something else for the child, and ruthlessly interrupts the teacher's lecture. Even more parents are playing with their cell phones while their children are in class. Such practices will affect children's learning. Parents need to set an example for their children, write down for children what he can't write down, and help children keep in mind the teacher's requirements.
Second, parents should never say in front of their children that they do not understand music and cannot learn music. Children adore their parents, and those whom he admires can't learn, how can he learn? His fears will suddenly increase. Show great interest and confidence with your child. This is a common problem among parents. The learning process should be very happy, we should learn to enjoy this process, and cherish the joy and sense of accomplishment this process brings us. Only in this way can the child's learning have the stamina and persist in learning!
I once again wanted to keep a happy mood. Suppress your negative emotions so as not to have a negative impact on children. Don't beat or scold your child. If you hit and scold, your practice will be over. The child succumbed, but his personality was distorted. Some parents are unclear about their children's purpose of learning the piano, their attitude towards children's learning is unscientific, their values ??are incorrect, and they are anxious to let their children achieve grades and treat their children simply and crudely. This can only make children hate learning and hate musical instruments. It will be empty.
Don't belittle the child's achievements, praise the child, and develop a habit of encouraging the child. Think about who is willing to be with someone who accuses him? When letting children practice the piano, do not use the "timekeeping system", they will think of various reasons, such as shit, pee, and drinking water Time; don't use the "piece-rate system", the child will practice faster and faster, ending in a weed. When learning piano, parents should stay with him from beginning to end, and patiently guide the child to practice the piano as required by the teacher.
A correct practice of a piano is multi-faceted, the rhythm should be accurate, the sound should be right, and the posture of the hand should be correct and cannot be distorted. Let the child remember the teacher's appearance, imitate it, and recall the teacher's request with the child. If you encounter a wrong sound, don't correct it immediately. Let him find the wrong sound by himself.
The parents play a reminder role. Over time, you can identify which is the wrong sound in time, and your child's listening ability has improved. It is also necessary to cultivate children's music hobbies. To make children feel that learning to play the piano is very important and happy. When the child has a sense of responsibility and mission, the child can complete the assignments assigned by the teacher without parental supervision. In addition, when the child is practicing the piano, the home must be quiet, and avoid as many people as possible!
In fact, learning the piano is a happy thing. The process should be beautiful and memorable. Overcoming the technical difficulties is even more joyful. Parents should not take the final result as the purpose of learning the piano, in fact, the happy learning process is the best learning purpose!